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Religious teachings can serve as either a roadblock or a resource in addressing domestic violence.
Religious teachings or scripture are sometimes misinterpreted, distorted, and misused to suggest that domestic violence is acceptable or even God’s will. Christian women often feel compelled to stay in abusive relationships by scripture mandating them to “submit to their husbands” or “turn the other cheek”. Jewish women may feel pressure to not bring shame to their community by revealing the abuse in their marriage, or they may feel that it is their responsibility to maintain shalom bayit, or peace in the home. Muslim women may question the nature of God and may question the relationship of God to them if they are in an abusive relationship. Abused women often feel abandoned by God.
Rather than offering resources and alternatives to battered women, clergy have often advised women to return to violent homes and be “better wives”. An informed, compassionate clergy person can contribute to the healing process of a victim of domestic violence. More clergy are getting the education and training needed to support victims in staying safe. If you feel your concerns are not being heard or responded to fairly due to religious or social precedent, call the 24-hour crisis line 25-746-1940 or 1-800-827-8840. (Courtesy of EDVP.ORG) |
